Thanks for the the help. I've been reading the MLC resources like JazzGtr recommended. You comments where very useful as well.
I think this has been coming on for awhile, don't know if that means we're any closer to the end of the crisis tho'. I'm so shocked that the person that has done more for them in their lives and loves them unconditionally is the one that they dump on and want nothing to do with.
She loves her father and he has done little for her all her life, yet I'm the problem and need to be kicked to the ground and run over repeatedly.
I'll stand here with my hand out for her to grab when she needs a break from the storm, maybe one day she'll grab it and won't let go.