CL, Keep DBing until she comes home or you decide that you have done all that you can or desire to do to save your marriage. I finally got my H to admit the affair. He at first said we needed to work on us. This lasted about a week and then he was back to he had tried, but has no feelings for me. So part of me thinks I might have been better just keeping my mouth shut. I'm not sure where we stand now. You have read my thread. So I guess what I'm saying is just follow the DB rules, and don't push her about details of the OM or her whereabouts. WAS are not thinking clearly now, only of themselves. No amount of reasoning or threats will change that.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
