If you found out she is spending 90% of her nights with another man, what would your approach be then??
Alaska, I think there's a difference between you and I regarding how much we need to know. MWD states that it's OK for the LBS to either want to know many details of the affair or very little.
I'm not sure how having detailed knowledge changes my approach. I already have the information I need. There is obviously a problem. I need to be in DB mode.
I can probably assume by her distant behavior toward me, the fact we sleep in separate bedrooms, having sex only once in three months, that there is an EA/PA going on.
My knowledge of the details doesn't change a thing. I'm DB as if an EA/PA is going on, and that she's having a MLC. I think my approach changes only when the sleeping elsewhere behavior stops. My current approach stays the same up thru D.
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