Thank you OSU, NGU and Cat--I'm moving forward with my eyes open wide. I appreciate your helpful comments.
Oldtimer--I'm on it. After initially looking at the information available online, I believe H's lying is to cover up rather than being compulsive/without reason. I will do more research into this.
Breaking news on my sitch: OW2 delivered twins in Feb. They could be H's. I can't even begin to digest all the implications both moral and financial this brings.
Can anyone explain how Aud, this sweet girl who lives her life on the straight-and-narrow ended up in this SOAP OPERA??