In the dance community, my W tries to downplay her involvement with me. She says that people won't dance with her if they know she's married or in a committed R.
Her behavior at a dance venue, reminds me of the status of our R--chilly. It's just the way it is. I have to keep my expectations low.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."