Looking Up

[Heywyre]

Thanks COG - as usual

It would be 1½ years since the last time and one other time in the previous 2½ years - so, yippee, twice in 4 years

Ya me saying I'm going for a drive really got to him - I will have to use that one a little more (especially if he's staying home and I say I want to go by myself (I can guarantee he won't want me to go, will say he's worried about me blah blah blah) but I will have to say he came home and he had an incredible R talk (all initiated by him)

You're right - I shouldn't have said anything about "making a decision" but it was already out of my mouth (have to control that damn thing next time)

Yes, H is 62 (63 in a couple of months) and she just turned 26 and no, there is no hope of them ever being together, I know that. First of all she has 3 fairly young kids (that would drive him insane) and secondly, she's an escort that lives 2½ hours from here. He hates where she lives (where we used to live) and never wants to go back there (other than the 4 months or more he travelled back and forth every week to see her without me knowing (agggrrrrr)

I know you said "don't snoop" but that is a tough one for me. I have been REALLY good about not checking the cell and visa bill but I have done a little more snooping about the OW - and as much as he thinks he was her saviour and helped her see her evil ways (ya right) the actual day he called to tell her it was over, she revamped her website to point specifically towards "distinguished gentlemen" so, ya, he really did her good. Basically what he did was convince her how flippin' gullible 60 year old men are - sheesh

But I am feeling way better today. We had a great weekend, spent time with friends and family and he even bought me an Easter basket - how cute eh?

I will keep your suggestion in mind COG about telling him he can stay home only if he intends to "screw my brains out" - I guess we can always dream huh?

Sounds like you will be getting it a heck of a lot sooner than me - however, this morning I did notice a little bit of perkiness in the little head and he made the comment that he's been getting more aroused lately (hmmm nice to hear - however, it might deflate the little guy when I tell him there will be no action until he gets a check up from the doc). I don't care how careful she was and how covered he was, there is no way anything is coming near me without a clean bill of health

That should be an interesting conversation in itself (well, not like I haven't had one before with him)