I don't envy you because I went through the same thing about 3 months ago (right after the second bomb hit) and, believe it or not, my H went through it right after the first bomb - hmmmm someone trying to tell us something?

When H had his, the nurst in emerg told him "now you know what your wife felt like having kids" and trust me, it comes pretty close (other than the fact the pain subsides a heck of a lot faster once it has passed (the stone that is, not the baby) and stones don't go to college - lol

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)