I post in the MLC because thats now what I think is going on. She started going out drinking with friends and would say that they have so much but she has crap. Their husbands give them everything... Well I would but I'm not financially able to...she always seemed so satisfied before. [quote]
Since when are YOU responsible to pamper the h3ll out of her?? I know that of which I speak...........my wife thought the same. Some of these spouses forget how good they've got it. My ex is finding that out now.
When she said about how the other's wives got pampered, maybe you should have said " I KNOW what you mean! A couple of guys at work are SOOOO lucky! Sex 8 or 9 times a week, oral sex performed on them several times a week, and the variety and enthusiasm!! Man, I know what it's like to be jealous. And the best thing is, their wives do this because they WANT to!! Because they love their man, and appreciate all that he does for his family. They understand there will ALWAYS be people with more, but that he is doing his ABSOLUTE best, and they appreciate it immensely."
How's that suit you?
Don't forget my friend, this a 2 way street. TWO way street. You are NOT all to blame, no doubt. Look back. Did you do the best YOU COULD for your family?? IF so, then walk forward with your head held high.
My wife thought I should stay in a job I HATED, and she knew I HATED, so she could stay put where we live and enjoy the "finer things", like not having to ever go to work, but instead, sit around with your girlfriends and drink beer most days.......then get your antsy up so you could bitch at me when I got home!! LOL.
