Life goes on, and it ain't about Job

[Yoyowife]

I totally understand you not wanting the children to meet that worthless OM. I'm not sure I would tell W that your D told you that she wanted them to meet the OM. Your D confided in you because she felt like she could talk to you, and tell you what's bothering her. If you tell W what D told you she may say something to D and upset her. You are being a wonderful parent. We have to work hard to keep the children out of it. Our spouses are not thinking clearly so we have to make them feel as secure as we can. You could ask D though if she wants you to talk to her mother about the situation of meeting OM. You know your D best.