He said he's seeing someone new

[Hope_11]

Hi, sorry for just joining the thread now. Both Ophelia and phoenix23 appear to be about the same age as my husband and me. My thread is called "Should I let go or hold on?" My husband and I are both in our late 20's and we don't have any kids either. My husband has been having an affair for 6 months and living with OW for 3. He acts like it's nothing serious, but doesn't want to work on our marriage but doesn't want to let me go. He thinks that he took things too far to turn back. I was wanting to get a little input from you two about how you are deciding what to do since you don't have kids to worry about. I feel like I am young enough to start over and have a good life, but I also still love my H even after all of this. We are seriously discussing getting a divorce at this point, so things are looking pretty bleak for me.

Also, Ophelia I think you mentioned something about your husband being taken over by aliens and being so cold to you. I know exactly how you feel. I have been with my H for 11 years and I also wonder how he can treat me the way that he has for the last 6 months.

Ophelia I am struggling with my in-law relationships also. I am very close with ils also. My ils all know about the ow and think that it is absolutely horrible about how he is going about everything. They blame all are problems on the infertility stuff. I am leaning on my ils more than my parents because I am still protecting H from my parents.