Cissy - of course you feel horrible! I get this sick feeling in my stomach reading about he lies your H is again telling you. All too familiar to me. My 2 cents is to not accuse him of anything nor try to defend yourself. He is in "OW can do no wrong mode" and no matter what you say, he will defend HER. Take the high road no matter how hard it is right now.
My H's OW claimed cancer, too. Then, she played dumb like the Dr. mispoke himself. WHATEVER! She couldn't totally play the cancer card, though because H told me some stuff and he and I researched it together! Anyway, I won't say any more about it to H, though because he will totally defend HER.
Oh girl.. take care. This OW is psycho and you are gonna get sucked in!
