Matilda, The family outing was cancelled. I most likely would have attended this one. It's usually just a two hour visit.
The one thing I'm doing differently ("Do Something Different" in DR), is not immediately accepting invitations. This buys me some time to think about if I can be confident and attentive during the outing. My history is to accept most invitations, out of loyalty.
I declined an invitation to attend a dance lesson over the weekend. It was short notice, and I didn't want to miss my yoga class. She also has complained about the teacher and studio. I told her there was too much negativity surrounding her relationship with the studio. I'm not usually so open about such things. She understood and apologized. It felt good holding her accountable for her behavior.
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CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
