I do think my H is going through a MLC. He has gone from blaming me to saying it wasn't me it was him. Who knows? Everything you read says not believe everything they tell you. I know what you mean about not telling your family. I'm 44 and don't really share everything with my family. It hurts them and I'm not sure they fully understand why I put up with it. My aunt says to be careful that he is just being nice to me so I won't take him to the cleaners, so I just try to figure things out on my own. My dad has tried to be nonjudgemental, he is that type of person. I know that he is thinking that he wants to make it easier on me if we ever do get back together.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
