Do you think your H is in a MLC? Another thing he told me once after the last big fight was that it wasn't me it was him and he didn't know why he hurts me. That it was like he had to get control and no one could help him but himself and that he didn't know why he wanted to hang out with a b?*#% like her instead of me. He was the only one who could fix it. HE still is with her so I guess he hasn't fixed it.
So I guess i will keep practicing Detachment and GAL. I am always here for you. It has to be tough being there with noo family. It is comforting you have your girls. My parents live 2 hours a way but my dad has anxiety and my mom is a worrier so I haven't said anything to them. My mom would go beserk. Is that weird that I am 48 years old and afraid to tell my parents because I don't want to upset them.
