Your H affair sounds like my H it started as an EA. He told me he was trying to set her up with one of his friends and she started chasing him. Like I said we have known her family for years. She was married 10 yrs ago to one of my H friends. She has 4 kids and 2 of them she sent back to their dad and all of a sudden she sends the girl to her dad because she can't handle her. The oldest one got Preg. to get away from her mom because she didn't want to babysit her mom anymore. This womans own family has stuck up for me because she was saying how bad a mother I was and her own family told her that was a lie. That my kids were really good kids and I was what a mother should be. My H won't believe that she would say anything like that but this person is not a nice person but she has my H fooled completely.
That makes me mad about that OW. She shouldn't say anything to your MIL. She sounds just like this one too. It must be the trend for H's. I am very lucky because I am very close with my H's S and my SIL. also I take care of my MIl and FIL doing what ever needs to be done for them. They both know about the OW and they are not happy. I would hate to see if she approached my MIL it would be fun to see. The OW has told people that know us that he is her boyfriend even her nephew told my niece that she said we were divorced. I confronted my H in January about that and he said it was a lie. She wouldn't do that. Do we have the blinders on?
I am an only child but I do have a great support group of a variety of friends and family. You can always vent to me. I find it easier to write things out to you guys and it helps me get control and be come stronger. I usually can't post in the day at work but I try to read them once a day there.
Thank you so much and lets make each other strong.
