AST, Ok! I was sort of thinking along the same lines, ONLY what if now I feel like the WAW???? Maybe , I feel like I don't want him near me. He will not respect the boundaries regarding sleep over w/ kids at OW, etc. I am tried of his continues escalating abuse. So I am detaching, limiting any conversation unless he starts to talk about anything and just plain ol staying out of his same space. I don't know if he will ever reflect b/c he has always been selfish and now its worse, but at least I am trying to show him I will not put up w/ it anymore. Now that I have turned the tables and told I am ready to sign the D papers...he sits on his butt and does nothing!!!
