I think someone once told me to not have her sleep w/ me in case H decides he wants to come to bed? What is your male opinion?
I doubt it fosters any passion in him during the middle of the night. If he can't pick her up and place her in her own bed or if he doesn't want to take the chance on waking her up, he isn't going to make the effort. This is a contentious issue even for "happily" married people. It's hard enough to get alone time with kids in the house, your marital bed should remain a "kid free" zone.
If you want to leave the "vacancy" sign up for him, it's best she sleeps in her own bed.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
