NOP, That is one pesky stone you have there...hope it passes soon.
Thank you for your supportive words and for seeing some hope in this crazy situation. I wish I could have seen things earlier; denial is a powerful force. My H radiates a boyishly naive presence ( and I do as well, but in the girlish form) and we both had only a few relationships before we met. We are probably the last people anyone would consider as being capable of affairs. You are doing a great service by getting the word out here about affairs, and I find your concise advice helpful, especially when the mind is swirling in heavy emotions.
It's amazing how the sex issue was just a symbol of deeper relationship problems. Although my marriage is no longer sex starved, I hope to continue posting here, with the hope of getting to an even healthier place. I feel not only do I have my husband back, he is showing me every day that he does not want to lose me. We've had to learn the hard way.
