Why doesn't it ever stop?? as previously mentioned H lost job again but has not told me yet...picked up D's at MIL today and said nothing about H at all, except I could not believe he did not call for Easter.(REally trying to keep my mouth shut around her) D5 shows me an easter basket from H...nice Disney Dad material! Got in the car and D5 told me H took her to lunch today but she isn't supposed to tell me because it is a secret...WTF...
Call me crazy but I don't think in this day in age kids should be taught that it is ok to keep secrets...especially from their mother!! I am sure H said this b/c I have heard him tell his S's not to tell their mother things.
When H finally tells me he lost his job how do I react and what do I say about the secret?? Odds are he will get another job and tell me he quit the first...obviously he wasn't working today. Not that any kind of DB matters anymore in my sitch but this is such a 180 for me...I would have called him and asked him why they went to lunch and why he wasn't working etc...or called my MIL and asked her...she said nothing about it today at all!!! So no one knows I also know about no job...
I am really upset about the secret thing...I do not want my daughter raised like that!
