Quote: --------------------------------------- NOP, have you recovered from your kidney stone? ---------------------------------------
No, it is still on the inside, lodged just above my bladder, but at such an angle that it isn't blocking flow. I am going to wait another week and see if I can pass it. If it will make it into my bladder, then I shouldn't have too much trouble with the rest of the trip. If it hasn't moved by next Monday, then I am going to let them grab it. I have to tell you, that does not appeal to me.
Quote: ------------------------------------------------------------ Well, he is coming forward now and I am really proud of him. I know I can make things work with him if I stay in the present and not get bogged down by bitter memories. I plan to come here and get some feelings out on an as needed basis ------------------------------------------------------------
I am really impressed with the way you are handling this. There are many that would be having an emotional meltdown right now. I am glad that he is coming clean with you. It will hurt for a while, but in the long run, it can really remove a lot of obstacles that have been fixtures in your relationship. If he has been suffering from depression and low self esteem, then there is a good chance that those issues will at least fade some, if not disappear completely.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
