Thanks for posting. Yep the truth hurts sometimes; too bad!
COG ~
I am actually very careful about the kids. My D told H that she didn't like it when I asked questions about ow, so I don't ask her. S5 is different b/c he doesn't get that I have issues with it. So I can just ask him stuff casually and he tells me. I don't want to know any more than I already do, though. This is enough.
As for dating, I guess I'll leave that in the hands of the One who knows better than me!
I certainly do not want to make anyone else's life a mess, but if someone nice comes along, who knows? By the time we D, we will have been physically S for at least two years. If I wait three months for every year of M after that, it'll be another three years, so that's five years total. Seems like a pretty long time. I do appreciate your concern, and I am being very cautious. I'm not going to depend on anyone else to make me feel better. I am picking myself up, and I'll move on myself. If someone interesting happens along, I'll take it as it comes.
Thanks for your support, friends!
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