The Oosalem bird is still flying around!

[geordie]

Millymoose,

I think she's living in the fantasy of this relationship right now and I'm not sure you can do anything to stop it. The harder you try to stop it, the more she will go to him. Keep doing what you're doing but perhaps don't be so available. Seems like she can see you as being the reliable one and DD will only get more jealous of you over time which will work in your favour. It's a very long road......patience is something you need even in your darkest hours.

Continue to be her friend and no R talk....you need to make this time with DD gone to be very good between you two. See, she's already "hiding" you from DD by not telling him that you are spending time with her....that, believe it or not, is working in your favour, I think.