Well Aud,
From an old pro of WAH leaving, coming home, leaving, coming home, leaving.....KEEP YOURSELF GUARDED! This is just my opinion but take your time in allowing him back into your heart completely. You have to see that he IS making changes and wants to be there for you! No matter what, do not back down from your morals and standards. If you don't agree with something, discuss it. Let him know how you are feeling and where you would like things to go. He has to know that he hurt you deeply and it is going to take some time to heal.

Please, don't let him take you for a joy ride. If you have to put your foot down, then do it.

Now that I have thrown some negatives out there, or some warnings, I just want to say this.........CONGRATS!!!!!! Keep working on it. You never know what can happen and things could be better than ever!

Please keep us posted. If you need anything, you can email me at j_engle77@yahoo.com.

"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."