Reasons why we may not want them back

[HalfMissing]

fig, I remember when H and I were dating 23 years ago, he inherited $4K and used the money to buy a computer instead of a car he needed to visit me. In our first apartment, I put my foot down and insisted he had to move the computer out of the bedroom because I would wake up in the middle of the night and see him on it. For the last 17 years or so since we got a house, he gets up at 4:30 am so that he can go into the computer room to log on for a few hours and would often let the family oversleep so that he would have more time on it alone. The only time I ever woke up with H in my bed was on vacation. My H would often leave out slinky outfits for me to wear and then would be asleep and unwakable by the time I returned from the bedroom to put them on because he just had to get up at 4:30 for his computer time. 20 years of rejection for a computer gets to you. The irony is that I switched my major so we would have more in common and now do computer programming for a living.