here it goes and I know it can be much longer,but mostly generalizing:

1. disrepects my mother.
2. a man full of bitterness and w/out empathy for everyone( even before the bomb).
3. teaches & uses our kids to lie for him.
4. verbaly abusive to all his closeones including his sister.
5. truly low self esteem covered by machoness.
6. gives a new meaning to the term hispanic machoness.
7. outings have to be where and when he wants.
8. always (even before bomb)spends money like theres no tomorrow.
9. Because of #8 he plays catch up with the mortgage every three months after threats of house beign taken away.
10.addiction to sports comes before anyone else's priorties. Will use house payment money to fly across the world for his car race addictions.
11. a/c did not work and mr. selfish would not let me sleep in his room w/ the fan.
12. incapable of saying I am sorry.



Me- 38
H- 37
3kids 6,7 & 9yrs
married 10yrs
9/06 bomb "want a divorce"
11/06 found PA proof still no admittance
PA ongoing,but no papers filed (yet)