Thank you, thank you! I am feeling better about this. No, it doesn't happen all the time. It's just been those 2 times and the first time was quite a while ago so knowing the above helps -- I think it was a combo of "going & going" til physically exhausted & having to pee.

I guess I just "assumed" (which we all know is bad) that a guy just always has an "O." I've been in relationships before where I NEVER had an "O" so when/if I don't, it doesn't bother me a bit, but I just thought a guy always did.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10