Thank you, thank you! I am feeling better about this. No, it doesn't happen all the time. It's just been those 2 times and the first time was quite a while ago so knowing the above helps -- I think it was a combo of "going & going" til physically exhausted & having to pee.
I guess I just "assumed" (which we all know is bad) that a guy just always has an "O." I've been in relationships before where I NEVER had an "O" so when/if I don't, it doesn't bother me a bit, but I just thought a guy always did.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10