Thank you, Hey! I had read somewhere that your H was on the AD's too so I was hoping you would read this too.

This month is going by way too fast though -- he leaves May 1 for his year deployment. I can only thank God again & again that things have worked out the way they have. I know it's the DB'ing & my faith, but not sure EXACTLY what "changed his mind." I do know if I hadn't found this place & kept begging & pleading, he would be long gone by now, but I still have no idea what truly changed his heart/mind.

I'm still just enjoying having H "back" -- no R talk, who knows when I'll even get to that -- there is the issue of OW/EA, whom I think he still talks to,but is just a "friend" and I have made myself just let that go for now. Anyway, wrong forum for all of this, but thanks for your input. It made me feel A LOT better \:\)


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10