I am divorced and have discovered some things I am definitly glad to be rid of!!!
1. he lied about everyhting and everyone 2. He was always on the computer and I used to joke that to get himt o pay attention to me, I should attach a mouse! 3. He thoughthe was smarter than everyone else and whenhe clearly wasn't I had to stroke his ego or he would go balistic 4. He stole money from my kids' piggybank and lied aboutthat (see #1) 5. he would say things like I don't care how fat you get...I love you impkying that I was fat already since nothing was said previous to the comment about fat or love 6. he snored 7. he chewed with his mouth open 8. he thought he was clever and he wasn't 9. he cheated throughout our marriage and denies it to this day (see #1) 10. he blame dme for all things negative 11. he was extremely jealous and never liked me to have friends 12. he destroyed numerous friendships (see #1) 13. he had bad taste in clothing 14. he chewed and would leave nasty spit jars all over the house 15. he was financially irresponsible 16. he was a baby 17. he was a big drag to be around 18. he was incredibly unsupportive and contributed to the demise of at least 2 jobs 19. he never made me feel pretty 20. and probably the most important was that he sucked happiness out of me instead of putting it in.
After he left I: went off the AD I was on for the 7 eyars we were together stopped having to take insulin got a great job got a grea tlittle apartment bought a sweet little car lost about 4 dress sizes feel more confident and blessed than I have ever felt before