I've never had the pee problem, so I can't comment on that. The lack of O, I can comment on though.
I've never had frequent, or even semi-regualr sex with W, but during my A, I was having sex at least once a day - frequently more than once. When I was doing it regularly, my stamina increased greatly. There were also times when I didn't O. Not a lot, but some. We would go at it until we were both so physically tired that we just couldn't keep it up any longer. She would have had several O's, but I wouldn't. It didn't seem to bother her, and it didn't bother me in the least.
I've seen several of the women on this board saying that they can still enjoy it and don't need to O every time. That's exactly how it was with me. I felt perfectly satisfied without the O. Now if this was (or in your case 'is') the case all the time, I would think that there may be other things at play. It could be the AD, but not having any experience in that area, I wouldn't know. I just want to say that not having an O is not necessarily a problem for men any more than it's a problem for women. It's probabably more uncommon, but it's not necessarily a problem.
