Happy Birthday~~
you enjoy dinner with your friends and family! My H filed for D one week b/f your wife. The day after MY b-day.
It is a horrible feeling and sickening when your M comes down to what is on paper. My H is out of the house...just left...

Don't let this crap get you down...eat cake, drink wine, do whatever makes you happy today....On my b-day I projected what I would feel like a year down the road...I think I will be happier or on my way to a new life with my kids....
try it you may just be surprised!