Ok, where's Lou, where is everybody. I'm really concerned about this & need a guy's perspective.

Is it ok w/ a guy to "have a good time" for quite awhile, feeling good (and he did ask how many times I had "o'd" - twice) before he stopped - but he never had "O" and this is all new to me.

Like I said, I'm still so insecure in our R and this bothers me -- can this be ok for a guy? Can this be normal for a guy?

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10