though after new years h and I did have a discussion...took two different nights to get him to admit that he wasn't happy with the m...the only way he would admit it was when the question was posed "would you want either of our children to grow up and have a marraige like ours" his answer was a definite NO.
so if h is not satisfied with the m then why not do something about it? why just take the "well we got married and had kids and that's the way it is" approach?
Sure, I'd rather not have my kids grow up in a divorced family but what am I supposed to do.
