Seems firm enough to me. I guess I'm thinking maybe, since we're ML all the time, it's going to take longer for him to "O" than before and if he had to pee, well, he couldn't wait any longer? And add the anti-depressant and it takes even longer??

I just hate all of this -- before the D bomb, I wouldn't have worried about whether he was having an "O" or not, it was never a problem. Maybe I need to quit thinking so much about it. I'm just still so insecure in our R and trying to make sure things are good for him and that he stays happy, etc.

Oh & he did make the comment that "I am doing new things & he wonders where I'm getting my ideas from" \:\) Must be doing something right? Right?

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10