Could Use Some Input Over here

[RedHeadWife]

I really don't think so, b/c I get more turned on if I know I'm kind of "in control."

I posted another thread. I'm very concerned about the fact that he did not "O" yesterday a.m. This happened one other time and his excuse is he had to pee. The first time it happened, he ended up getting really upset about it later & said it had never happened before.

When it happened again yesterday, he hadn't yet & then again said he had to pee really bad. This time I told him that it really bothers me when he doesn't and he said "really, babe, I truly had to pee really bad" and never got upset about it at all. I guess I'm very insecure right now w/ our R and this truly bothers me a lot.

I guess we could also take into consideration the fact that we are ML A LOT now (pretty much every day or every other day) whereas before he would "O" immediately b/c we never ML hardly at all. It just bothers me that it takes him a lot longer and now he doesn't even at all.

Please give me some input here -- I guess I don't know what to think about this!!! I'm worried!!