She's not educated - She doesn't have a great job ($ wise at least) - She has an apt in a very working-class part of town - H must seem like her knight in shining armour: he's charming, good job, house in a trendy area (soon to be mine, but still), smart, interesting, etc. - She is trying so hard to impress him through my kids. This annoys me, but now it makes sense: she thinks she's found the man of her dreams, and he is going to rescue her.
H is a vain man, always has been He will be very happy to have someone who thinks he is wonderful
Nicola I could've used these words myself about my H and his OW. I too have been thinking about meeting other men but I won't act on it while I am M.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15