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She's not educated
- She doesn't have a great job ($ wise at least)
- She has an apt in a very working-class part of town
- H must seem like her knight in shining armour: he's charming, good job, house in a trendy area (soon to be mine, but still), smart, interesting, etc.
- She is trying so hard to impress him through my kids. This annoys me, but now it makes sense: she thinks she's found the man of her dreams, and he is going to rescue her.

H is a vain man, always has been He will be very happy to have someone who thinks he is wonderful


Nicola I could've used these words myself about my H and his OW. I too have been thinking about meeting other men but I won't act on it while I am M.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15