Ok, well then I guess here's the scenerio. Once awhile back when we were still having major problems, he didn't "O" which is crazy for him not to. However, keep in mind that he would "at the drop of a hat" previously b/c we pretty much never had sex so when we did, well you know. Anyway, he didn't "O" and then said it was b/c he had to pee. Then later that night, he got real upset and told me that that had never happened before.
Well, it happened again yesterday a.m., keeping in mind that now things are going very well for us, and we are having sex constantly and he's on an anti-depressant-maybe it takes longer for him to "O?", but he didn't "O" and then said it was b/c he had to pee really bad. Anyway, I said to him that it really bothers me when he doesn't (not mentioning why - the above) and he said seriously, babe, I just really had to pee and he never did seem to get upset about it and is still fine this a.m. He was actually even very affectionate at one point yesterday which was a HUGE step for him/us.
Am I worrying about something I should just let go? This truly bothers me b/c I've never known him to have a problem w/ this -- could it be a combo of things or what do you guys think?
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
