I actually was very calm when I talked to H about boundaries. Said he is not to accept gifts for our child from OW. He said fine and didn't even snap back at me. Later he asks why I can't just believe him... And, I told him to look me in the eye and tell me again that he got it for her. Well, then he backtracks and makes some excuse about how he bought almost all of it. Then, he tells me that he doesn't owe me an explanation anyway. I started to get mad and said, well that's part of a M.. explaining yourself to your spouse... That's why this marriage is over.. Uh Oh.. going well until then... Conversation over!*sigh*
I will discuss the moving out part later this week. I see the C (for right now H and I are both seeing her for IC; she WAS our MC) this week and will talk to her about it. She asked me if I had thought about leaving last time I went and I told her "no" at the time. So, this time I think she and I need to talk about how to approach this.
It's really too bad.. We had such a great time on our date on Saturday night. PLUS - OW is crying about how much she wants to be with my H. I just can't take the lying BS any more...
