Mom...I don't know much about the legalities of what you're going through...the D and your H losing his job and all, but I just had to stop by and tell you that you are amazing. I am so proud of the way you are hanlding yourself through all this. I love the fact that you did not return his calls...I guess I could easily see myself where you are...I could see my H losing his job as he already got demoted and he's calling in sick a lot more...I hope to handle myself the way you are!!!