OLIVE!!!! You are a great mom to protect your child. I can see how you are so mad because OW is starting to encroach on the exclusiveness (sp?) of your relationship with your child also. HUGS from me.

Having said that, I hope you have clamed down a bit from your posting. Take a few deep breaths. Stay cool when you talk to H. I think it is reasonable to set boundaries regarding interaction with your child. And you can deliver that message in a calm, business like matter. Leaving part may be you can leave out for next time???

I am not good at words so not sure if this is good to say. Just please take care and know that we are all here to share your pain (especially I am sure some have gone through the same)


M 38, H 38, two sons
Met 20 years ago
Married 13 years
Bomb: Oct, 2006
DB: Started in Dec, 2006
H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007
H back home and piecing?