8, I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. How awful for your children. You are being the responsible parent and letting them know you are there for them, just keep doing that. I think you handled the weekend swapping perfectly. You didn't blow up, that takes a strong man, so it sounds like you a pro at DB. If you had blown up you know it would not have solved anything, just made things worse. I'm so proud of you. What strength!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon