"....can they go through replay after being out of the tunnel for almost a year???" you wondered.
They can, they do, and they effing will!
It seems your husband has picked his own health as the new battle ground. Are you afraid to "drop the rope"? If you can, do it. You sound ready to string him up, sugar blues and all!
If this were your friend Tam would you tell her to stop mothering him? I think that is what I would say to her if she were struggling to make her husband care for himself. YOU would see it in a moment. Imlin would beg her to stop right now.
Why don't you laugh and tell him to enjoy his oreos. Fire up the Fry-Baby and start making greasy little egg rolls! Soon he would, after accusing you of trying to kill him, start begging for spinach salads... He is jerking your chain. Get creative about responding. Or not.
I hope you stay cheerful, but don't fix dinner especially for him.
Are you too angry to joke about his diet derailment?
My mother and father used to do this diet dance. Food wars. It is safer to 'fight' about food than about what might need talking over. Maybeee. I don't know it all.
