Well today is almost over!! All in all it was a good day...My D5 was so excited with her Easter Egg Hunt. Brought kids to MIL this morning so she could see them in their dresses...thought H might be there after he asked me what time I would be there yesterday...H was a no show! Later in the day I got a VM from my stepson thanking me for his birthday present...I then had two missed calls from H but with no message!! I am assuming he called to say hi to D5 since he has not spoken to her since last tuesday. Knowing H he probably thinks I would see the missed calls and return them...I did not because I am done thinking for him! If he wanted to talk to D so badly he should have left a message and I would have called him back...So no contact from him at all today...Nice father huh?? I am wondering when he will tell me that he lost his job...snodderly, I really hope he didn't do it on purpose...How can he put his childrens well being at risk like that? 25, yes a 6K retainer is ridiculous...especially when we do not have TONS to fight over...my L is charging me 2500 total...from soup to nuts. H's L has a reputation for being cut throat and a shark...fights dirty and has no respect for the law. He probably saw H coming a mile away!! If H doesn't have a job I may ask him to file a continuance so we do not end up back in court again after D over child support...what do you think? Miss my dog...I know it is one less stress in my life but the house is so empty!! My sister helped me pack H's dresser and get everything out of my bedroom....H still hasn't taken anything out except for tv, golf clubs and my stepsons beds!!