It is Easter Sunday and just when you think you are getting in control H throws a new curve at me. I have been trying to detach as much as our business will allow. He says he is coming down late Saturday afternoon and for Sunday. Both of my kids are gone for the week-end to college stuff and won't be home. We were invited to his brother family for dinner but he works with them all the time and wanted a break. So he came down in late evening told me he had gone to a movie (that I had been wanting to go see. I'm assuming which I shouldn't but I'm sure with OW). Then tells me how good it is and how much he laughed. We have a nice visit because I remember to act pleasant and act if. We drink a bottle of wine and watch a movie. Go to bed a few hugs no ML I c kinda slipped and ask if we were ever going to have sex again. Maybe sometime he said. We go to church and I cook dinner for his parents and us. He keeps watching the clock and says I have to go. STill really nice and then he goes to her house. He tells me he is going somewhere else.
I just have had it with the be nice to me run to her. On the phone bill (which I know I shouldn't look) he will call her all the time. Usually calls her then calls me.
I feel like I should just call it quits but right now would not be the wises financial decision on my part. I just don't know if I can keep up the act. I know i posted on 2940 to act if she had to but it is tearing me apart. He has told me he doesn't know why he wants someone like her? But he won't quit seeing her and talking to her and taking her to dinner. He was very complimentary to me today on how well I looked and how much weight I had lost and how hard I'm working trying to keep everything going and the business together. I feel like will it get better.
Help!!!I don't know if he is being kind and not wanting to hurt me or if he even cares about anything.
He has all the symptoms of MLC....I was doing really well at handle this and now I have stumbled.
