OH! MY GOD! I know I had this in a dream!!! All that happened last night, my H took the girls for the first time for an overnighter and during the day the OW had set up a egg hunt in her backyard and the girls said daddy slept in the guest room...yeah right.. Anyways, like I have been told there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING that I can do or say to stop him. I think this is finally sinking in..... I might need soemone to keep reminding me of this. It jsut hurts when H is taking away MY family time w/ my girls. You know waht? H has hurt me so much back to back this past week and now I am feeling all dried up inside. I guesss this is good in order to really start to detach now...hmmm