Geeeeeeeeeeeeeezzzzzzzzzzz

Hate to say this <smug look on my face>......

Didn't we ALL tell you that OW was nothing...FOR WEEKS now?

But, nothing like finding it out yourself.

And, you hit it on the head, all the reasons you stated for the R are valid. You teach criminology, right? So, you can put together the facts for the real story!

Look, about your conversation...don't sweat it. This is about YOU, right? Not about "who loses their cool first is a loser." If you lose your cool, who cares. As long as you said what you wanted.

THink of it this way, and stop worrying what he thinks of you and what you looked like.

HE is the one that walked out on his family and W
HE is the one that had no integrity and lied and cheated
HE is the one with an OW who does not come close to his W

So what are YOU getting your panties in a twist over? What you look like to HIM? For real, Nicola.

That is your power. Take it back.