Outaluck,

My 2 cents:

"I don't want to hear about you and your adulterous lover and what you do when you should be home tending your husband and marriage. Now, do you have anything else you'd like to discuss?"

There is no need for you to be her "girlfriend" and listen as she dribbles on about her illicit activities. Detach when that happens and leave the room if necessary. You need to draw a small line here and make it stick. Anything else goes, but you don't need this cr@p.

Just me, your mileage may vary.

OTB


Me - 47
Her - 46
4 kids, 2 still at home