boiler, i am new here and not doing a good job at DBing myself at all... sounds like the 180 is working a bit for you and i'm happy for that, just be careful and don't overdo it. I was having success with that tactic for a few days and then it backfired on me, i think i took it too far and i was coming off as angry all the time... that i didn't really want her around... just my 2cents, be careful.
Me-40 Her-38 together 18yrs EA summer 06/ PA fall 06-BombDropped-xmas 06 (ILYBINILWY - Just Friends?) Moved out -3/20/07 - Moving further away bcz of poor DBing ?4/15 story http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=999831