First, my thought is not to read into things that may not be there. You sound like me.:) I know it is hard, but don't assume things and look for so much negative. I would also suggest as before to worry more about your kids and yourself. I know it is hard with hime there, but don't pressure him. If you remember my situation my h never left home so I had to live with him through his whole ordeal and believe me it was hard to watch and not say anything. Hang in there.
