I am glad you posted. I didn't see you update your thread and was hoping you would. Happy Easter to you, Shades! Make it a great one. Thanks so much for responding to my "Dip" post. Really appreciate your thoughts. (((( Shades )))) ~PH
I haven' fallen off the face of the earth (although sometimes it doesn't sound like a bad option).
Still here and still dealing with a crazy MLCer. I can't go into too much detail b/c it would be too long and telling. Suffice it to say my H has potentially screwed me on the move. I have decided even if I don't get the house I will still go and live with my folks (as much as I don't want to) until I can find something else.
He has been so depressed with work for so long. Then yesterday he calls and he is nice and happy sounding. I was encouraging and tell him he will do great at whatever it is he does. His response is a blow off "yeah we'll see." Every time I try to be supportive and encouraging I get a TOTAL blow off answer like that. It is sooo frustrating. I haven't let it show in my demeanor with him, I'm still nice and upbeat. BLEH. No matter what I do he doesn't care. It's almost like he is patronizing me with a response so I will shut up and leave him alone. Like I am to annoying to listen to. When one of his complaints was that I didn't show enough support for him!!! AAARRRGGG!!!
There's lots of other yucky H news but I just can't deal with it right now. No, not an OW that I found out about. I really couldnt handle that right now with all the other crap.
Anyhoo, getting read to take the kids to Disney World next week. They have no idea they are going. I am just packing a bag and taking them to the airport and seeing if they figure it out before we get there. They will be SOOOOO excited!!! It will be a blast!
MIL got a call from her SIL yesterday. MIL's brother lives in Florida and was admitted to the hospital yesterday to have a triple bypass. He can't have it until Monday or Tuesday b/c he has to be off his blood thinners. So I changed our flight so that we can drive down from Disney and visit with him for a day. I think MIL appreciated it. She hasn't seen him in a few years and my kids have never met him. Oh and she also found out her other brother is in the hospital with congestive heart failure. sigh. She had a rough day yesterday.
Yep, life is full of fun in my little neck of the woods.
Tonight my girlfriend and her kids are coming over for pizza and a movie. Thank God for distractions.
(((Shades))) Sorry your H is frustrating you to bits, and that he may be screwing you on the move. I hope he won't do that. I know it must be so hard when you try so hard and he blows you off. Take care of yourself so that it's easier to handle his negativity when he doles it out to you.
I hope you have alot of fun at Disney World. I haven't been yet (only been to the Anaheim one). I like how you're surprising the kids with it. What a great and cool mom you are! Love, PH
I have dinner with Winnie the Pooh, Lunch with Cinderella and dinner with a bunch of the princesses!!!!!!!!!!!!! They will be in heaven!!
It will be a nice break from home. sigh.
I think I might try not to be so available. Maybe it will help. I do answer whenever he calls and make it easy for him to see us regardless of our schedule. Phooey.
I'm sorry little princess has a fever. Poor girl. It has been going around our school. Hope she feels better!
). I have lots of wine though!!!! 