I fear my H really is happier without me. I fear my kids will be terribly hurt by all of this. I fear my kids will blame me. I fear my H has an OW, and is happy with her. I fear my H may never return to me. I fear my H will be happy and I will always carry sadness. I fear I will be "replaced" by an OW by my H and our friends. I fear I will always be alone. I fear moving home and leaving my H here. I fear not moving home and my H moving away from here. I fear being divorced. I fear the unknown.